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Read Stories about Debbie written by her friends and loved ones.

Giggie

One of my first memories of Deb was when we were "choir moms" at HACC. I loved her the moment I met her. Deb made everything FUN! We got HUGE laughs about current HACC members and their children when they were young. Probably would not be wise to share those memories. They involved bathroom stories in the middle of Peake Hall. Although, when I think back on them I can still her Deb laugh out loud.

I got to take vacations and youth group trips with Deb. I don't think there was a kid that did not like her! We had a change in our youth group minister,(thank God they got rid of him) Deb hosted a youth bible study in her home. Some many kids attended their were no chairs left. There were kids every where! No matter what type of event Deb had, people came. I think being a youth sponsor with Bruce And Deb was the largest youth attendence the church ever had.

One year I was the leader of a multi generational bible study and Camp Takatoka. Thank heavens Deb offered to help! We had so much FUN. It was soooo HOT that year. Deb and I would stand in the walk in freezer and talk for a LONG TIME to stay cool. Of course, Brucie had the bar set up in the back of his car. HA-HA! The best event of that weekend was when Bruce & Deb decided Rick should drive the car around the camp. But of course I will never forget when we played 2 truths & a lie. Marquax had to remind me of a little surgery!

Deb will always be in my heart, she still comes to me in my dreams. I am thankful for her life! I keep things in my house we bought together. I will never forget she and Bruce coming to the hospital to pray with me before possible breast cancer surgery at 6 am. That's just who she was and Bruce still is. I love all of you!

Brooke "Boe-Dill" Boethin

When Margaux and I were in elementary school at Carnegie, Debbie used to watch me after school while my mom worked. Debbie always said "You girls are the last ones out of the school! What's taking you so long?" But we knew she didn't mind waiting on us because she only lived a couple blocks from the school, yet I can count on one hand the number of times we actually walked! We could always find her in the jeep in line with the other moms, waiting to pick us up... Heaven forbid we walk two blocks! Once we got home, we would always have a snack (oatmeal cream pies were our favorite) and watch tv (We didn't miss an episode of "Hey Dude") or we would put together "The Boe-Dills!" dance routines or synchronized swimming routines for an audience of one! She was so fun to spend time with. I don't remember being scolded and was always treated just like a daughter, not a guest or an imposition. I wanted to be just like Debbie! I thought she was a picture of style! I would sit on the edge of the tub and watch her put on her Christian Dior makeup in blue boxes just waiting for her to discard something and give it to me and I, too, wanted to have socks that had a little polo emblem on them, just like Debbies. I remember her giving me some for my birthday, mind you this was in 5th grade. I'm 25 and I still have some of them! Debbie did a lot for our community but what's so great is that I never noticed her being too busy to just sit and focus on us as kids and watch us dance or gab about how our day went! She was always up for fun and a wonderful caregiver. I think we all carry the lessons Debbie taught us... to have fun, to make things special, to be kind and think of others, and to be a good example. I'm grateful for every moment I spent with Debbie. I'm grateful that I had her as an example and as a friend. I love you Deb!

Gay Larson

Only a few week before Debbie passed, I had lunch at your home with her and Renee Profitt and Debbie seemed to be doing so well. I dropped in to give her a book on dvd to listen to while doing her Chemo. She insited on sharing her salad with me and made me a glass of iced tea. I will alway remember her hospitality. We talked about a project I am doing which is a photography exhibit of children up for adoption through DHS, hard to place kids that travels the state. It is call the Waiting Child Heart Gallery. I told Debbie that my dream was to have Garth Brooks entertain the kids at their opening of the show. A week later I got an outline that she must have done at night on how I should position my request to Garth. She said she wasn't thinking well and there were typos and words transposed but I will forever treasure it. I am not going to make the request of Garth since I don't have a way to reach him but Debbie's thoughtfull ness will be with me forever. I loved her.

Gina Conroy

I first met Debbie over the phone when I wrote for her at Tulsa Cityscape Magazine. Her enthusiasm was infectous and her faith in me to write the story was encouraging. I met her years later at my boys performance with Theatre Arts productions. She was just as beautiful in person as she was over the phone. I'm grateful to have known her and she will be missed.

Kristin Brown Byrd Middle School

I will always remember that special "Mother-daughter" bond Debbie and Margaux shared. They were a perfect team. Margaux, I know your mother is so proud of the young lady you have become. Always treasure those memories and times spent together. Take care of yourself and your family. Your family is in my prayers.

Kristin

Donna Weinkauf

What do you do when the doer is gone? I say. . . God says she's done. And - What a great job she did! xo xo xo Donna

CATHY LEONARD

Brianna Snodgrass

There are so many things I remeber about Debbie. She was always so fun and full of life, oh and what a laugh. It had been 6 years since I had seen her but I still remeber that great laugh!!! One of my favorite memories was when I was about 8 and Margaux had to been about 6. We had been shopping all day and Debbie suggested we all get a pair of jammies for our "girls night". As everyone knows Debbie had a way of making everything special. Mom and Debbie got matching polka dot silk jammies and us girls got white silk jammies. It was so much fun, and we of course took lots of pictures in our goregous jammies. Everyone could be more like Debbie in the way she made all the day-to-day things more fun and memorable, the things we tend to forget. God gained a special angel, and she will truly be missed!! You are in my prayers, daily. Love, Brianna Snodgrass-Yarnell

Kristi Schluter

Today as I am living my daily routine I am astouded to find how many people know Debbie Dill!!! Everywhere I have been today, my husbands office the nail salon the grocery store someone either knows Debbie or knows of her and they all have the fondest of memories. I have never met another person who has touched so many lives in such a positive way. I met Debbie through Shari while volunteering with Theatre Arts Productions and thought she was always so polite to talk with so many people in the lobby, now I know she probably KNEW all of them. We could all learn alot from her graciousness and hospitality. May the thoughts of the many lives she has touched and made an impression on keep her alive in your hearts each day.

Kristen Lyon Gehrig

Some of my best childhood memories were days spent at the Dill’s house swimming during the summer and making the annual graham cracker gingerbread house each Christmas. Megan and I were always so proud of our works of art! Although I just heard of Debbie’s passing today, my thoughts must have been with her on Friday when out of the blue I just had to have a cherry slushy like the many Debbie made for Megan and I years ago. The last time I had one of those slushies was at your house probably 15 years ago, but I think it may be a new summertime favorite at our house. Although she will be terribly missed, Debbie’s spirit will live on in all the lives she has touched through the years. My prayers are with all of you, Kristen

Michelle Plischke Taylor

What sticks out in my mind about Debbie is the love she had for all children. One time in particular we were sitting outside and she asked me how my little one was doing. Our little girl was adopted and she wanted to know every detail, her name is Zoe GRACE and Debbie ALWAYS called her Zoe GRACE, never forgetting the middle name! When she would ask you what was new in your life she REALLY wanted to know, through Debbie I got to know Vicky and then to find out she married into a family (The Westfalls) my family has known since before I was born! and I got to have Debbie's special boy Max in musical theatre one year. She will continue to be someone I will admire, always. Much love and many blessings, Michelle Taylor

Laurel Gherini

Hello Dills. While I only knew Debbie for a brief time, her special spice for life shined through so quickly and clearly. I will never forget it. I immediately found that she was a very special woman, with a loving family that adored her. She was visiting Margaux in DC and stayed up late to talk with us about her work and her family. Her passion inspired me and I've been working with special events ever since. But what was especially evident was that she held a deep love and appreciation for her family. In fact, I distinctly remember admiring the trio (Debbie with her sister and daughter) and their strong connection with one another. Debbie's warmth was indeed unique, and it could never be forgotten. My prayers are with all of you. Hugs, Laurel

Brenda Jones

This is not so much a story about Debbie as it is words to comfort Bruce. Per your entry of 4/9, where you are concerned about pleasing everyone and making sure that everything is done the way you think Debbie would want arrangements handled. I want to give you Debbie's own words when she faced a difficult situation with respect to one of the many JLT Committes she chaired. You may remember when Debbie was asked to chair "Tulsa Style" and of course all her loyal disciples including myself followed her into this exciting event. Several months before the fund raiser was to take place Debbie was dealt a major blow, our standing sponsor for the event pulled out because of a change in corporate policy. As anyone who was ever affiliated with "Tulsa Style" knows, without a major retail sponsor, the show can not go on! Given the fact that this event was a huge part of the JLT operating budget, Debbie needed and in classic Dill style would not give up until we had replaced this event with another. To make a long story short she changed gears fast and hooked into the Tulsa Centenial Celebration and "To Tulsa, Love JLT" was born. This process was accomplished thru many disputes, opinions, and outright opposition of some within League membership. In the end Debbie's vision won out and it was one of our most successful fund raisers. However, I remember a committee meeting during all of the conflict where Debbie, in an effort to rally her confused troops came in, took her seat and said the following, "Here is the deal, one: You can't please everybody, there will always be people that do not agree with your vision, two: We must focus on producing an event that will be representitive of the the way Junior League does things and that is with grace and style, and three: Keep our eye on the bottom line." She then asked that we pray as a committee for guidence, success and for those in the organization that opposed the plan to change their hearts. I would say this is great advise for all of us when we have a vision that we know is right and must complete with or without everyones approval. This Bruce is what Debbie did and would do.

Penny Downing

Debbie and I would see each other on our early morning Target run. Always encouraging as our family fought the battle too. She truly is an example of courage and strength who fought but als turned it over. Our thoughts and prayer, Penny

Angela (Blackburn) McLaughlin

The summer after 8th grade (1982) I was fortunate enough to spend a week with Bruce, Debbie and Megan. The hospitality that I was shown was immeasurable. I'm sorry to admit that I didn't have much contact with them after that trip, but it's something that I'll always remember. The news of Debbie's passing is sad, but after reading all the wonderful things that people have written, I realize she lived a life full of love. I'm sure she is smiling even now.

Lisa Berry

One of my favorite Jr. League stories about Debbie: When we had training for Judy Ingraham's Presidency, we natually brought food (one of the many things leaguers do excessively). Most of us brought the usual fare - salads, chips, brownies, cookies, etc. That is all except Debbie - of course, she had made a special cake and decorated it 60's style (with a huge peace sign) to honor our new president's hippie and cool style. There was never the ordinary with Debbie - only the extraordinary. The only problem was instead of the "Peace Sign" she had mistakenly put a "Mercedes Symbol" on the cake. We all laughed so hard we couldn't breathe - especially Debbie. She said it would be just our luck if that kind of PR ever got out, after we had worked so hard to be accepted by all groups. She said she could see it in the editorial page cartoons - the Mercedes Emblem - the Peace Sign of JLT! This story makes me laugh out loud even to this day - thank you sweet Debbie so much for this fond memory and all the incredible work you did for the Jr. League.

Chris Prabhu

My stories began in high school. It was my junior year and my sister had just made the pom squad, unfortunately, and little did I know what I would soon be getting myself into. The pom squad was FULL of these Texas cheerleading moms guided by their leader Brenda. On a daily basis it seemed as if I was involved with the pom squad, from being forced to watch tournaments to having to pick up Kendall. Debbie finally came up to me and said, "there is no way you like pom this much, you're only here to check out the girls." I said yes to both, and after that Debbie took me under her wing for the next 3 years my sister was involved. She even started saying on a regular basis that I should start dating Margaux, but I think Margaux knew better than to date trouble like me. Margaux and Bruce, my heart goes out to you both. I know she is looking over us all, smiling down waiting for us to join her in Heaven. God Bless

Nicole Gemper

I don't just have one story of Debbie, But many, many memories. I Do remember that out of all the fights "the girls" had in middle school on a daily basis, hating eachother one minute - best frinds the next. Debbie was always the one we could tell our problems to and every thing would feel better. No matter what anyone of us did, she never remembered the bad. She always saw the good in everyone ( even me, when i wasn't.) and she ALWAYS made you feel special! She was an amazing person. Bruce and Margaux my heart and love go ouy to you. -Nicole

catherine ball wade

We have never met but I am a cousin to Jimmie Wilson. His mother (Hazel and my dad Jim Ball ) were brother and sister. Were are thinking of your family in this hard to understand time. We lost our son when he was 27. I wanted to tell you a little story about Debbie when she was around 4 to 6 years old I`m guessing. Anyway one week end when we were home Hazel and Debbie came to my folks farm to visit. While there Hazel was talking about fishing down at the creek, Debbie wanted to go there to the creek, so my dad got two cane poles and Hazel and Debbie went down to the creek on my folks farm and went fishing. My dad dug up some worms for them to use. They ran out of worms ( carp would just suck them on the hook ) so Hazel had given Debbie some bubble gum so they put that bubble gum on the hook and Debbie caught a little perch on that bubble gum. They came back to the house to show us all that little perch. Debbie was so very proud of it. Know that we are thinking of you in this time of sorrow. Jimmie probably knows me as Susie not Catherine. Sue is my middle name and was called that when I was a girl at home. catherine wade

Donna Wortham Glbert

I just heard the news and am so saddened! I talked with Debbie a few months ago and she felt she had "beaten the odds". I knew Debbie from East Central High School, class of 1975. We were good friends during her "Walmart days" and and in the years that followed. I miss her already. I know family, Bruce, Megan and Margaux, meant the world to her. She will be missed.

Donna Wortham Glbert

Ii just heard the news and am so saddened! I talked with Debbie a few months ago and she felt she had "beaten the odds". I knew Debbie from East Central High School, class of 1975. We were good friends during her "Walmart days" and and in the years that followed. I miss her already. I know family, Bruce, Megan and Margaux, meant the world to her.

Damon

Debbie was a light. I only knew her briefly in 2005 when I came to Tulsa to work at TAP. She was so kind to me, going beyond her PR obligations to improve my stay lending me books on Tulsa's architecture and history and even taking me to have stitches removed!

She spoke frankly about her treatments and her journey in ways that inspired me. She had a renewed and serene spirit, an exuberance. Even in the wee hours when she took me to the airport, she arrived smiling, with an apple for my breakfast and a signed copy of "Tulsa Art Deco".

I am deeply sorry to hear of her passing and grateful I had a chance to know her bright and charming soul.

Robin McCullough

I remember being a young Junior League Member and Debbie coming to speak to our group. I so admired her zest and enthusiasm for life. That day was the beginning of my admiration for this lady. I looked forward to seeing her at League meetings or even out in the community. I always knew she would greet me with a smile and make me feel special. I knew her excitement came from Christ and it inspired me to be more like her. Thanks Debbie, for impacting my like. Robin

Sarah Ivie-Sweeney

I met Debbie about 6 years ago. I got the job to teach Margaux's 8th grade Byrd pom squad. I remember loving the girls, especially Margaux because she was so sweet and always hung around Kari(the other coach) and I. Part of the job was working with the parents and my favorite parent to work with was Debbie. She didn't make me feel like a teenager, but like an adult who had an important job to do. She made every event exciting and fun. She was the parent that Kari and I always wanted to talk to or ride to competitions with her. I remember that after we won Nationals, she had a huge watch party at her house and she made it such an important deal for Margaux and for all of us. Debbie, your sweet, bright smile and wonderful spirit always made me feel warm and welcome in your life. I was blessed to coach Margaux and get to work closely with you. Margaux, you were always my favorite! You know that! You brightened my life and everyone's that you entered. Debbie, I treasure and cherish our memories together. Your loving family is always in my heart and in my prayers. God bless.

Shannon Wilson

What can I say about Debbie? When I first started dating her little brother, I was overwhelmed by Deb. She was so involved in everything! All of the parties she planned! To a young college girl it sounded like a dream life. Through the years, I have come to know Deb's Love and enjoyed many family gatherings. The most memorable thing has been seeing the love she has for Connor and all of Bebe's boys. When Deb found out that the cancer was back she felt the need to talk with Connor about what a special boy he is and how much she loves him and is proud of him. As I was fighting off tears, she kept telling him stories from his Daddy's childhood. Even though she was fighting for her life, she wanted to let Connor know how loved he is. What an amazing woman! I pray that Bruce and Margaux find the peace that Deb would wish for them. We love you!

Janneke Haverkamp

I just met Debbie this summer when I was at the Kappa house for Bid house day. Even though I was a Theta, my neighbor's daughter, Sarah Kujawa, pledged Kappa so I went to OSU to welcome Sarah to the Kappa House. I was sitting down eating when my other friend Shari Graham introduced me to Debbie. I immediately liked her! We started talking and I told her that I had worked for Williams for several years but did not work there any more. She then told me that her brother in law was Kevin Westfall and did I know him. I immediately smiled and realized why I liked Debbie! Kevin and I had gone to college together, had our first jobs together, and eventually he became my boss. I should have know that anyone related to Vicky and Kevin was a wonderful person. I like Debbie from day one and could have seen her as a friend of mine if we had know each other sooner. I have been keeping her and your family in my prayers. God Bless you all!

Camber Pearson

After reading Seth's story, I had to write my about my cheers experience to Debbie. I was in Breckenridge skiing over spring break and called Margs and Debbie to see how she was doing. Well of course Debbie in her always down for a good time attitude told me that she really wanted me to hang up the phone and have a cheers to her and of course I said Ok. Not everyone who would ask me to do that would I drop everything to make sure i fulfilled their wish but for Debbie I would do anything! So i immediately hung up the phone, turned down the TV and made a room full of 20 college students raise their glass to Debbie. Most did not know her but willing rang their glasses to her. I thought it was weird because though not knowing her they still have heard many awesome stories of her from me and others. Thats how Debbie is, you could never have met her in your life and Im sure she has still impacted your life in one way or another. Thanks Debbie for teaching me the important things in life..even when I thought you were wrong hmm.. you still proved yourself right! I dont know how you do it! But I will forever love you and I will ALWAYS cheers to you!

Seth Leonard

Hey Deb, sorry its taken me so long to write on here! Anyways, spring break was a blast! It kind of made me realize how old im getting though, everyone was younger than us. And don't worry, we did "the toast" that you asked me to do. It's the first thing we did. Well, I have about a thousand stories about you. Carpooling to schoolwas fun, even though I absolutely hated it back then. I can remember you always having us play games in the car (which I did NOT want to do). I remember the times when we would have to take pictures in front of your house and I would have to always stnd in the middle. It was embarrasing because back then all the girls were bigger than me! I remember one friday when you picked us up, you and the girls thought it would be a good idea to lock me in the trunk of your old white car. Man, you guys really picked on me back then! But you were always there for me. You always gave me advice on everything (even if I didn't want it!) But it was always great advice, you were always like my second mother. Anyways, I gotta run to class, I love you and I miss you...

Melissa Stallcup

Debbie, I want you to know that you are in my prayers daily. Since Junior League we haven't crossed paths too many times except at BSF and yet I still remember those JLT days so many years ago! You chaired a few projects that I sat on with you and I was always so awed in your ability to make them smoothly happen. You made the job look effortless and you handled any bumps in the planning with grace as well as authority. I learned so much from you on how to lead groups effectively. You have left a wonderful mark on JLT and many people's lives and I am privileged to know you and benefit from your expertise. I'm thinking of you and I appreciate you even after all these years!!! Much love to you.

Marilyn Ball

This is a comment rather than a story. Debbie, I will always remember how much class you brought to the front desk at Gordona's. I can still see your sparkling eyes, and remember the warmth of your personality.Hugs and Prayers

Cindy McHenry Stone

Hi to Debbie's family. I was one year younger than Debbie in High School & graduated at East Central. I had a brother Debbie's age & they were good friends, Doug McHenry. She was a great friend to him, & she was one of my favorite people who was one year older. I recently ran into her at Harold's of Utica Square, at first we didn't talk but later I didn't know but asked Vicky about her, & she said that is my sister, later Debbie returned & we had a wonderful conversation. I am so glad we did. I recently let my brother know about Debbie, he was saddened & said to tell her keep her chin up & he would remember her in his prayers, as I do to. I also work for Harolds now & enjoy Vicky. I am so saddened by Debbie's cancer, she is a sweet, sweet person. Thank you for your website & sharing. Know God is the god of all comfort & someday you will comfort others who go through what you have & you will be blessed. I have a dear friend who is going through the same thing & am going to have her husband if he wants do the same tribute to her with a website. Thank you Bruce, you are awesome.

donna, mitch and heather rhyne

donna, mitch, and heather rhyne

dear debbie ~ it is wed., 4-5-06. we LOVE this website. i've always wished i had a smidgen of your energetic personality. ever since i've known you--you've been all about FUN!!!!! you are such an upbeat person, and amazingly friendly. we watched our "daughters" Margaux, and Heather grow up to be beautiful young ladies. from our Carnegie Elementary days, when you invited the children and our wonderful music teacher, Mrs. Kotey, to perform and sing at McDazzle. the song, That's What Friends Are For, is so lovely and special every time we hear it. McDazzle was one of our most favorite memories at Carnegie. And then...at school every day, you'd dress up Margaux like a little movie star ---so stylish! and you and Margaux would always have a fun hairdo or haircut. Debbie, you'd wear fun sunglasses too. remember when Margaux was McBurglar for the Ronald McDonald House? For Byrd Middle School, we would carpool Seth and Whitney, Margaux and Heather. And each year i'd take a photo of them in your front yard. and your sister, Vicky, would fill in and help you out driving some days. and then, little MAX was born...how happy that made you and your family. I think of you each year when i hang the penguin ornament you gave me from one of your trips to New York. it's still not broken. and Debbie, you had such a flair for entertaining. you knew just what to do to decorate and spark things up. Also, we loved your article in the Tulsa newspaper featuring your famous Red Velvet Cake. we still have our copy. you did wonderful on your work with the Tulsa Cityscape magazine. you love Tulsa and it always showed. and you're fond of this neighborhood like we are. now we are Kappa moms at osu. you have helped so much there too. we've certainly loved the times we've seen you and Bruce, and Margaux in Stillwater. your kindness is unending. we're so glad for these fun memories over the years. you are an awesome example of a most loving family. love to you all. God be with you.

donna, mitch, and heather rhyne

Jennifer White

Debbie and I met through John at a show we were both singing in. After meeting her, I knew her charismatic personality and passion for life would be inspiring to other women. I wanted to introduce her to a group called the Women's Law Caucus at TU College of Law. Debbie said she had never spoken publicly about her cancer, and I was asking her to do something she didn't know if she was prepared to do just yet. She didn't hesitate long and when she agreed, we were thrilled. She came during a lunch meeting in between classes at the law school and shared her story and her top ten things to do when you have cancer. Her list, and her words were more than inspiring, they were life-changing. Debbie touched the lives of every woman, and man, in the room. There were women there who also had breast cancer, and no one else at school knew it. This was the first time they shared publicly about their cancer. Debbie gave them courage to speak out and share how cancer has affected their lives. Women who heard her speak talked for days and weeks about how Debbie was so inspiring and what an absolutely amazing woman she is. She even made an impression on people who didn't attend the meeting, but heard about her top ten list and her "really fun chat" with the Women's Law Caucus. I am so honored I have met Debbie Dill and feel privileged that she shared her story for the first time with us. I know Debbie will continue to make impressions on people, and inspire women for many years to come because of the way she has lived her life and the way she touches people's hearts, even those who don't meet her personally.

Cathey Barkley

Fore Tulsa! with my co-chairman Debbie Dill... As the responsibility of Chairman for the Fore Tulsa! golf tournament was presented to me in 1992, I agreed to chair the event only if Debbie Dill was my co-chairman. I knew if Debbie agreed to co-chair this with me, it would be a success. And yes, it was a success because of Debbie. We had a full year of preparaing for the event - a one day Pro-Am with 24 PGA golfers and a zillion red skirts from the Junior League of Tulsa to pull it off! It was a memorable year for me - Debbie was the key...her organizational skills, positive attitude, and tireless work ethic made my job so easy. We had a ton of fun from start to finish...lots of laughs. Even the dreary weather the day of Fore Tulsa! could not dampen our spirits. I will always remember sharing this responsibility with Debbie and gaining a very special friendship with her at the same time. She continues to inspire me each day with her courage and strength. God be with you and your wonderful family. I think of you daily and continue my prayers for you. Love You Debbie, Cathey

Kelly and Chris Bayley

What were you thinking?!? Leading a group of young married couples at HACC would take a lot of preparation, time, effort-- and you had your young family and busy lives to think about! God obviously had you two in mind, and since his plans are always perfect, you fit the bill perfectly. We are so grateful that you answered His call. You were able to touch many lives though your leadership, but for us, you were also an inspiration. You were (and are) an example of what it looked(s) like to be a loving Christian couple. THANK YOU! I chuckled as I read Carrie Appleman's memory of "Let's Wake Debbie Up" (one of my favorites)! Even in her robe, she was a wonderful hostess for her "spur of the moment" visitors. I also smile at the memory of our excursion to the Cherokee Queen and watching the fireworks by the lake (yes, it was the Fourth of July)! Oh, yes......I have pictorial documentation of a HACC skit with Debbie as the adorable Alice and Bruce as the Mad Hatter! What an awesome task and a great accomplishment -- the Genesis Class is still going strong with a desire to grow and mature in our journey with Christ.

kyle revere

Debbie, there are so many stories I can share about you. Ever since I met you've been known as the "cool" mom. I can think of very many memorable moments at your home and other events. I always think of you and margaux coming to my baseball games and cheering me on and, oh the graduation gift you gave me. I won't mention what it was but geeze seth and I thought that was the coolest gift we could ever get. You have a very special family and I think about you every day. Margaux has been there for me for everything and I greatly appreciate it. You are a very special person and have had a very positive impact on my life

Rebecca Vick

"Hostess with the Mostest" Debbie hosted my first baby shower in 1998. I was Margaux's middle school math teacher, but our relationship grew much closer than that of teacher/student. Through Margaux being my "best" teacher's aide EVER to Debbie, Vicky, and Margaux going on Europe trips with us, we became close friends. She hosted a beautiful shower for me and my first baby boy (John Hardy Vick--now seven). Debbie knew me so well (and my LOVE for punch) she even had a HUGE special cup for the mother-to-be for my "endless" supply of her fabulous punch! I will never forget that wonderful afternoon. Debbie always knows how to make a person feel special and how to host a GREAT event! Little did I know, during my months of pregnancy, Margaux was "secretly" practicing a beautiful lullaby with her newly aquired violin skills. John Hardy arrived early, and the day after his birth I was surprised at the hospital with a visit from her, Debbie, and Vicky (violin and stand in hand). Marguax preformed excellently, yet during an occational "sqeak", Debbie would remind me that the baby WAS early....(so less time to practice...). I nevertheless was very impressed and touched by the thoughtfulness of Margaux and her family. Such memories will always be special to me.

Kim Steinhoff

All I can say is, it was the 4th of July. The Slyters, the Dills, and the Steinhoff's at the good ol' Steinhoff lake house. This 4th of July we found ourselves sitting on the porch drinking mixed drinks and margaritas. I still remember hearing Amy ask me why I was hanging out with the "parents." I remember looking at her and saying, "are you crazy...your the one that is going to be missing the REAL party!" There are so many great memories at that lake house and I will never forget the laughter that was shared. Not a day goes by where I don't sit back and thank God for all the people that have come into my life. Debbie and Bruce, I love you both and you both are truly an inspiration in my life.

Anna Berman

The Dill family has been in my life for almost three years and I feel truly blessed to have them. Margaux is my roommate and best friend. I have been given the best advice on life from Debbie through all of our late night conversations, slumber parties, and shopping sprees. Words cannot express the woman that Debbie is and will always be. I see so much of Margaux in Debbie and I love them both dearly. I can't forget to mention how much I love Bruce too. I just wanted to let the world know how amazing this family is and the impact they have made on me.

Emily Dunaway

I am a JLT member and editor this year of the JLT Gusher magazine. I have had the honor of meeting Debbie first through a JLT training on leadership. She made a huge impression on me and really helped motivate me to be successful! Then working with her on an article and ad for the Gusher, I got to know a very creative side of her. She has been such an inspiration to many young JLT members and for that I will always be thankful!!!

Dana Benefiel Zimmerman

I have had some fun experiences with Debbie, Margaux and Vicky...Just thinking about one from a Europe trip. Rebecca Vick and I were Margaux's 6th grade teachers and took students on summer tours to Europe. Margaux, Debbie & Vicky went on two of those trips and were constantly making us laugh (Margaux was a little embarassed of us, I think - but it didn't stop the goofyness). So, on a night train from Nice to Paris, there were many laughs, lots of fun and I resisted strangeling Debbie, Vicky and Rebecca. They ended up in a cabin together and with another woman or two from our group with wine & cheese and adult time. I ended up with four kids next door. I visited them for a while to join in on the festivities and had a blast - Debbie & Vicky together kept us laughing!! Well, I decided it was time for my cabin and me to go to sleep (Debbie & Vicky nicknamed me 'Princess Sleeps A Lot'). So, an hour later, unable to sleep through their uproar of laughter (they brought plenty of wine) I got a little grumpy and threatened them - which only led to more laughter and silliness - duh. Bottom line... Debbie, Vicky and Margaux made those trips a lot of fun - those are memories, pictures and experiences I will cherish forever.

Suzie Boethin

I recall Debbie telling me about her 1st trip to Paris with Bruce. She bought him a book of poetry to read on the trip and she said she felt like she was the luckiest woman on earth to be able to take that trip to the most romantic place in the world with the man of her dreams. Truly, this couple have made monumental memories together. Whether it be on a trip to their favorite cabin in the mountains in Crede (with no indoor plumbing) or to a ritzy world-class hotel sipping champagne, or to one of the many "events" Debbie so masterfully organized ,

or hopping into the car on a cold, snowy night to take a Bo-Dill outing for ice cream, or escaping to New York City to stay at their favorite hotel, the Bentley,for a well-deserved get-away trip, or sitting outside with neighbors and friends at 4370 East 57th Place in Tulsa, or serving their church family at Harvard Avenue Christian Church, or by being the "glue" that held their families together by hosting numerous family dinners and celebrations, or meeting friends at Meadowbrook for fun...

Oh how wonderful to reminisce. The stories seem never-ending. (How many people do you know that would love you enought to bake THREE RED VELVET CAKES FOR A FRIEND'S 50TH BIRTHDAY AND IN THE PROCESS-BURN UP HER MIXER?

Yes, we can certainly say that Debbie has left a footprint in our hearts that will never go away. Our world is a better world for knowing her. What a gift!!

Marcia Atchison

Debbie ok here goe's been thinking and remember when we were younger (seem's like yesterday sometime's) we would go into grandma and grandpa's bedroom closet and put on grandma's cloth's and just think we were the most adorable little grown up adult's going. And when she would take you , myslelf ,sue and vicky to the rest home all dressed up in her cloth's and have us sing. well do not remember the song's or if we were on tune (imange not) but they sure enjoyed it that i do know. or when we would help grandma make her lye soap wow was that stuff harsh on the skin. so many memorie's of our time with them. They are so precious to my heart and laugh at them now but they were good memorie's in the making. Debbie girl you are the shinning star of these good time's and memorie's and i am so happy to be your cousin. my heart is full of love and prayer's for you. you are my precious shinning star. God Bless you Debbie Love Marcia

Robert and Lynn Bockmeulen

We remember the first time we met you guys. We were at a party at Gayles (and Tom) at the time. Debbie was a tall as she was wide! She was expecting Margaux. We were taken with how funny, interesting and inclusive you both were. We have enjoyed any time we have spent with you and value it. We are glad that we have been in your lives!

Renee Profitt

Went by to see you yesterday and there you were still decorating after getting everyone straight about what clothes you wanted to keep...don't they realize we need 10 pairs of black pants???? You're so cute!

Pat Leikam

Dear Debbie: Last year, Vicky introduced me to you as you waited for my friend, Max at Monte Cassino. I mentioned the 1988 Tribune article that was written about you and your favorite recipes as President of The Jr. Phil. I thought you would like my copy even though it's a little stained from all the times I've made your delicious recipes. I'll pass it on to you after I make myself a copy. You are an inspiration to me. I'm praying for you and your precious family. God Bless You, Pat P.S. I noticed from the article that 1980 was a good year for both of us since we married our incredible husbands. copy even though it's a little stained from all the times Ive made your delicious recipes. I'll pass it on Thank you for all that you do for our community. I wish I could have worked on a Jr. League project or fundraiser with you. I would have learned so much. I'm praying for you and your precious family. God Bless You, Pat

Carrie Appleman

I thought of another one. One Sunday morning Debbie decided to play hookie from Sunday School and I don't think Bruce really had a lesson planned. So since Debbie wouldn't come to Sunday School, Bruce suggested we take Sunday school to her. We all piled in our cars and went to the Dill establishment to surprise Debbie. She was in her bathrobe and hadn't brushed her teeth but she was gracious as always.

Claudia Harveth

I have always heard that love is sweeter the second time around. I can honestly say that's the truth. Debbie and I first met during the "Jr. Phil" years, she was my Santa House Chairman, then President. We then moved on the Jr. League. During Santa House Erin and Margaux had their picture in the paper promoting the Coloring Book. I think the girls were maybe all of three years old! Strangely enough they look almost the same, but with better hair and make-up!! Debbie and I then drifted apart, seeing each other at Pom competitions and catching up. It is amazing how easy it was to pick right back up as if time had stood still. Deb and I have my daughter Erin to thank for this. Erin was working with Shari at Theatre Arts Productions and I happened to glance at a playbill from Will Rogers Follies. I mentioned that I knew Debbie, she was handeling the publicity and an advisor to the Board, and the next thing I know Deb and I are on the phone talking for hours!! We have often commented on the amazing connection we have...or is that with The Batchelor??? We have loads in common...great husbands, precious daughters and a wicked sense of humor we have heard. Also, there is the special John Sawyer that we both love!!! Some of my favorite memories include recent adventures with Deb. Who can ever forget The Haunted Castle with John and Dana (and Keith stories), MaryAnne and Johns first OSU walk-around and The Trip to the Lake!!! The food ,the movies, the drinks, the games...don't you wish everyone could know that kinda fun??? But remember gang..what happens at the lake stays at the lake..except for the pictures!! To wrap this up, Debbie is a true friend. Someone you can call on for help, share the best of times, and go to for advice. Erin has learned alot about friendship between women just watching and listening. Hopefully I will talk to you this afternoon and come and see the new master spa room completed!!! Love ya! and Mean it!! Claudia

Vicky Westfall

I believe God blesses us with family and friends. I know I am truly blessed because God gave me a sister and a best friend all in one!

Tyler Boethin or, Tyler BoDill

I first had the privilege of meeting Bruce and Debbie when I started dating their daughter, Margaux. I remember so looking forward to spending time at their house, which always felt like home. Debbie was always eager to tell funny stories and brag on Margaux, so I would realize just how special she was (which I defiantly already knew), and Bruce was always looking suave while smoking a fat cigar and talking about wine, or cooking a mean steak (which is better than my uncle barry's). My respect and admiration for the Dill family is unparalleled. There are few out there that share the love and devotion that this family has. What a blessing to be counted as their friend!

Loretta Rentfro

Debbie - What a cute 4 year old flower girl you were in my wedding! Even at age four, you were a very special niece and knew just what to do with those flower petals. May you be greatly blessed with all the love and warmth that God gives to such a beautiful person like you. Thinking of you each day. Love, Aunt Loretta

Carol Lang

Debbie is the best editor I've ever been privileged to work with. Magazines are unique entities. Once she was on board, Tulsa Cityscape Magazine became a truly fun and meaningful experience for writers. Her committments to professionalism, excellence, community, creativity, along with a willingness to incorporate others' ideas speak volumes about why she's outstanding. It is, however, her love of life, strong faith, side-splitting humor, charm and graciousness, and ability to listen and nurture that bless you with a friend of the heart. She just smiles her way in, becomes a part of you and enriches your life! Debbie's kindness, encouragement and prayers during the last five years of my dad's journey will always be treasured. Using her shared idea from Bruce's sister's service, our private sunset service at my parents' ranch was profoundly simple and beautiful. Yet another reason I thank God for bringing her into my life! From the first time I met her, laughed with her, emailed, saw the Light in her eyes, and felt the Love (and orneriness!) she exudes, it was obvious Debbie was a ball of positive energy and a true blessing. That's why I nicknamed her "little wren." No, not an allusion to being a bird brain ... wrens are my favorite bird! Wrens are small but mighty in their realms, energetically wing through their life's work with apparent joy, take great pride in feathering their nests (and in Debbie's case, feathering and re-feathering, and re-feathering!), fiercely and courageously ward off what threatens their well-being, and their songs are among the very sweetest. Debbie's life example to a "T", methinks! God's peace, joy and grace to Debbie, Bruce, the girls and family. Sharing this part of their journey allows us all opportunity to return a small part of the love and caring they so freely give.

dolores knauss

My dear Debbie Girl, I can't find the words to express the love I have for you in my heart. I look forward to coming over on Fridays to clean your home. I always say, "O.K.Lord. give me a word to encourage my Debbie Girl." But, one never comes, and yet, I go away encouraged by your love and your compassion and that smile that only my Debbie Girl has. As I clean your home, my prayers are all over that house. Asking the Giver of Life to give you strength. Asking Him to heal your body from the top of your head to the bottom of your feet. And thanking Him for the love He has for YOU. If you go over to Debbie Girls, expecting to encourage her, don't be surprised if it reverses on you, and you leave being encouraged. I love you Debbie Girl. You are my hero. Bruce, I love this web site. God has given you such a gift of putting words from your head on paper. I know your words have brought my comfort to others. Keep up the good work. And YOU Debbie Girl, THANK YOU for being YOU, and for loving me. and for caring for everyone. I have never met anyone like you, who shines for Jesus, no matter how you feel. Thank you my Debbie Girl for allowing God to work through you. Always remember that God is for you and not against you. You beautiful girl. I love YOu.

Marian McCarthy

Debbie has worn many hats, but I was lucky to encounter her when she donned the editor's cap at Tulsa Cityscape Magazine. Debbie has an immense passion for this city, and the "bully pulpit" of a full-color monthly magazine gave her a chance to do great things for Tulsa -- and finally get paid for it, too!

Debbie brought exuberance and personality to the monthly city magazine scene--her vision transcended the constant demand for new advertising revenue. She showed a true editor's eye for the unique, and sought to use the magazine to showcase the things that we all love about Tulsa: the generosity of people, the rich culture of individualism that thrives in our artists and our entrepreneurs, the history that built this community, and the vast potential of people (like her) who strive to do more than just "make a difference."

Debbie personifies the spirit she sought to portray in each issue of Tulsa Cityscape: optimism in the face of hard realities. Like Tulsa, Debbie has a history of stellar accomplishments -- but she always keeps her eye on the horizon for the next opportunity. She has never been content to sit back and let the world pass by.

Debbie deserves the collective love of everyone in this city to help her, Bruce and Margaux fight this new battle. Her strength and love have bolstered many of us in our own battles--we won't let her fight cancer as an "army of one." Thanks, Bruce, for the website so we can enlist in Debbie's Armada!

marilyn frakes "moomey"

i remember one time when we were younger and we all were at grandma anbd granpa wilsons for the weekend and myslef and vicky were running thru the house while gradad was watching lawerence welk and debbie and marcia got a spanking from grandad for what we had done. it was always fun to spend the weekend there with everyone and dressing up in grandmas clothes and going to see great gradad ball in the nursing home.

Nicole Paul

About a week ago I needed to drop some things from the office by for Bruce. I brought my 5 year old son Ethan with me. We were only there and few minutes, but enough time for him to love in the cat and get some candy. As we were about to leave, Debbie had called for Bruce from the bedroom. (She was resting that day) My son and I left and got into the car. He immediatley starts asking questions. He wanted to know who Bruce went to see down the hall. I told him that is was his wife, Debbie, and that she was resting because she didn't fell good. That led to game of 20 ?'s - like most kids that age seem to play. After I somewhat explained to him why she didn't feel good, he sat and absorbed it for a minute. They he said, "Well! Maybe we should get her a credit card to make her feel better" ..... I never laughed so hard! That had to be the cutest/funniest/sweetest thing I have ever heard him say. And I don't know where he got the idea of a credit card .... :) The apple doesn't fall far from the tree, the kid loves to shop! Anyways, to get on with the story....I told Debbie what he had said, she thought is was pretty funny too and said, "There's nothing wrong with charging a little happiness." He decided to do a little art project for Debbie involving an old credit card. Ethan takes his art very seriously. He loves it..and is very good at it. The one we had was perfect! It was an old Simon Gift Visa card that was a pink Susan G. Komen series. We he was finished, he was so proud of this masterpiece he had created. He couldn't wait to give it Debbie. Ethan had never met Debbie, and this pulled at my heart little bit that he did this for someone he has never met. He truly is a special little guy! Anyways, after school his grandma dropped him by the office so we could go to Bruce and Debbie's together to give her this special gift. Ethan was so excited! We got to the house and he walked to the front door trying to hide it behind his back. Debbie had swung open the door before we even got to it. She had the warmest smile on her face for him and I think he could have melted right there in the door way. When Ethan gave her his "masterpiece" he was so proud. She loved it! After many hugs and kisses, they posed for a picture together and sat a talked. Now, Ethan is extremely shy and rarely talks to anyone outside of his family. I couldn't believe how he was with Debbie...they talked about everything! He loved the story behind the painting of the lion in the living room. He wants to take a trip to Africa now. Debbie loaded him up with candy and snacks and a little extra so he could share with his brothers. He had the best time. After we got in the car, he said that Debbie was funny and he really liked her. He asked if he could come back again. And as we were driving away he said, "I dodn't like their house". I said you don't?....why not? He said that she needed to sell her house and buy a new one on our street. **** We love you Debbie! (I posted a pic of Ethan, Debbie and the "masterpiece" in the photo gallery)

dolores

First off, I thank God for bringing Debbie girl and Bruce into my life. They have always treated me like family, instead of just their house cleaner. On their last anniversary bruce got debbie a chest and filled it up with one card for each year they have been married and what it has meant to him. his words spoke volumes of what a compasisonate heart debbie has. she is always concerned about how others feel. Just thinking of her makes my heart smile. i love you debbie girl. you are my hero.

Katherine Castleberry

I have a story I want to share. A few years ago when I was the Provisional Chair for Junior League I called Debbie to ask her to be on one of the busses to do a tour of Tulsa. At the time I called I thought I was asking her for a favor. For those who don’t know what I’m talking about the Provisionals each year do a bus tour of Tulsa where they visit some past projects. We have members who have been leaders in JLT on the buses telling the new Provisionals about Tulsa and these past projects. In this case I wanted Debbie because I knew she could and would tell personal stories about many of the places being pointed out to these ladies. Debbie immediately accepted! When Debbie arrived that Saturday morning I handed her the script and went on to tell her I knew she wasn't really going to need it but I wanted her to have the route the bus would be taking so she would know what landmarks they would be going by and touring. I still seriously doubt Debbie had to read one line off that script! When the busses arrived back at JLT Headquarters and I went to thank Debbie – Debbie ended up thanking me. She shared with me that I had helped her cross off one of the things on her “list of job she wants to do”. Debbie went on to reveal that when she and Betty Rosenlieb were on a trip together she turned to Betty and told her one day she wanted to be a Tour Guide. After I called to ask Debbie to do this with on the Provisional tour she called Betty and told her she was going to be able to cross another thing off her list. Debbie - being the gracious lady she is - kept telling me how much fun she had that day and thanked me several times for allowing her to be a Tour Guide. I’ll never forget the twinkle in her eyes while she was sharing all of this with me! The Provisional (of course) were raving about Debbie and all the personal stories she was able to share about the projects and other League related stories. I still to this day have ladies coming up to me telling me how much they enjoyed that bus tour that day.

Michelle Riddell

Well, I can't believe it, but Tyler turned 12 a little over a week ago. But, several years ago, when we were first getting to know each other, we were gracious and let our husbands and Tyler join the fun and have some dinner with us. Tyler was probably 3 or 4 at the time, and as all kids do with Debbie Dill, he instantly fell in love with you. He also loved your candy dishes and your cat -- two things we definitely don't have. By the end of the evening, he was ready to change his address and last name and become a permanent member of the Dill family. In fact, as I was driving away, I had to roll down the back seat window so Debbie could hear my child's cry "IIIIIIIII waaaaaaaaaaaant myyyyyyy Deeeebbbiee! IIIIIIII waaaaaaaaant myyyyy Deeeeebie!"

Melinda Wilson

Well this is cheating a little bit b/c it's really Judy's story. Judy Ingraham & I were recently @ Melting Pot w/some friends when I told her about the cancer returning. After the initial reaction, we began explaining to the others at the table who Debbie Dill is ("she's chaired every event in town" "she is AWESOME"). Then Judy related the following story: Back in the Junior League days, Debbie made a cake for Judy, the eternal hippie. It was a lovely cake, Judy says, and in keeping with the hippie theme Debbie had drawn a huge frosting 'peace' sign on the top. (You know, the dove footprint in the circle) Only Debbie, who is NOT a hippie at heart, left off one line - - and that omission caused the symbol in the center to be the insignia for MERCEDES BENZ. This caused great hilarity, as they all realized this was even better; after all, it WAS for a JUNIOR LEAGUE gathering!

Shari Graham

I met Debbie through Junior League of Tulsa and when I saw all the things she did, I was very impressed. If you know Debbie, you know she is that person who you can rely on when it comes to planning an event. She will do it right. I have always thought this woman has it together. She is amazing. She comes up with the most wonderful ideas and pulls them off with no problem. As time went on after being active in Junior League, my daughter, Angela, came home from pom camp one day and told me that she met this really sweet girl on Memorial pom. Her name was Margaux. Angela always admired the Memorial pom squad. She thought they were so talented. I knew Debbie had a daughter in pom and her name was Margaux, so I asked Angela if her last name was Dill and she said yes. I told her that I knew her mother from Junior League. After that pom camp, my daughter developed a wonderful friendship with Margaux and became Margaux's little in the Kappa house. As I look back at my memories of Debbie, I can't forget the wonderful times that we have laughed, cried, or just talked forever. Debbie has always been there if I ever have any questions regarding OSU, rush, teenagers, etc. I look back and think all the wonderful things that Debbie has done for me. I couldn't write them all on this page because it would be so long, but I will never forget her giving me a typed up packing list for Angela when she went to college, her taking late phone calls when Angela was going through rush (Bruce loved me for that), explaining to me what a fleur-de-lis was, telling me that she wanted Angela to go Kappa so I could be a Kappa mom with her, helping me pick the right dress for Kristen's wedding, listening to me cry when Kristen lost the baby, and listening to me rejoice when Kristen had Meritt. As I talk to Debbie now, she is still that amazing person. She truly cherishes her friendships, her love for Christ, her amazing family and all the wonderful opportunities that she has accomplished. Debbie, you really made a difference in my life and I am so blessed to have you as my friend. I love you dearly. Shari

Carrie Appleman

In the Fall of 1986, (wow that 20 years went fast) Kent and I were newlyweds and were visiting Harvard Avenue. We heard that there was a new class forming for young marrieds and went that first Sunday. Bruce and Debbie Dill were to be the fearless leaders. Upon meeting them, I knew we needed to join the church and be an active part of the class. The Dills were so warm and welcoming, and a real class act. When we moved into their neighborhood, Debbie brought food and a great card with Mr. Rogers on the front that said "Welcome to the Neighborhood." I still have it. Debbie dragged me into the Jr. Phil thing and I got to see her give 110% to her presidency. When Kent lost his job, they shared their Chinese take-out with us one night - real spur of the moment. Bruce was so supportive and encouraging and took Kent to the pro-am tournament. When I was pregnant with Laura, Debbie gave me a beautiful baby shower with her elegant flair. I've never seen Debbie not be in a cheerful, upbeat, enthusiastic mood. And she's always so pulled together. She (Bruce, too) is always giving and doing for others. And she has great ideas. One of those people who can do all things well. (Gah, Debbie, stop it already.) Oh, and Margaux, i remember babysitting you when you were about 2-3. Dirty Dancing had recently come out and I guess your parents took you to see it or maybe you had heard them talk about it. But you informed me that you were going to your "Dirty Dancing meeting" and you showed me some of your interesting dance moves. I'll never forget that. You guys are amazing and I believe you can conquer this as you do everything else, with class and grace. I pray that "this sickness will not end in death", but be for "God's glory so that God's Son may be glorified through it." John 11:4

Stephanie Gradski

Well, I have just heard the news today as Sharmi called me this afternoon. She told me about this page and I had to visit. Through shock and tears I have been trying to come up with a story to share, but I am sitting here re-living every moment of the past 28 years, (yes I am that old now can you believe it?) and there are so many that I cannot choose. I have come to this conclusion because you and your family are so much a part of me and my family that it is hard to narrow that down into one small story. There have been sleepovers, family vacations, great dinners, great parties, shopping, hanging with Vic., boating and lake days, holidays...whew!! So many things!!! So I choose to tell you this: You are and have always been a woman that I look up to and admire greatly. We have always had fun and you have always made me smile. God has blessed my life supremely by filling it with so many strong, graceful, independent, beautiful, witty, creative, and faithful women. I could never use the excuse that I do not know what it means to be a lady, a mother, a wife, or a servant of God-I have had far too many examples. I thank you greatly for that. I thank you for helping to cultivate that within me. I thank you for being my friend. I thank you for being a role model. I thank you for being my mother's friend. I thank you for being there for me when she passed. I thank you for all the times that we have shared and for always having an open door. I thank you for giving all of the girls in your life a standard to set their own lives by. But mostly, Debbie, I thank you for being you. I must also say that it is times like these that I feel that I have missed so much by moving so far away. I miss the spirit of the people that can only be found in a place like Oklahoma. I miss the companionship and the community that does not exist in the hustle and bustle of other places. I am thankful for everyone that is physically there for you and Bruce and Margaux. I am thankful that God chose to raise me there. I am thankful that I was led to this page, for the stories and the love and the togetherness that I have witnessed have strengthened my own spirit. You will be in my thoughts and prayers daily. Much love while you continue your journey. Oh, p.s... (And I am really sorry that I couldn't get anyone to let you backstage to meet Dolly Parton. I tried so hard!!!)

Renee Profitt

I got to know Deb about 4 years ago when I had the brillant idea to leave my job and start my own ad agency (what was I thinking???) I needed someone to help with PR and a friend from work, Nancy Ruth, told me about Deb. We've been friends, confidants and partners ever since. I couldn't have made it through any of the projects without her and certainly not have had half as much fun. It's true what they say about "sharing the burden" and "doubling the joy" of a job well done. Her energy and encouagement has gotten me through many a crisis!

Carol Lang

D - Dynamic little pixie - a "Dill-y" of a gal E - Ever smiling, laughing and sharing faith B - Beautiful spirit B - Best listener and sharer of stories I - Incredible motivator, editor and friend E - Encourager

D - Delightful blessing I - Illuminated by Light and Love L - Love personified L - Loved by all who journey with you

Debbie ~~ From the first day we met I knew you were a kindred "funny gal" with a proverbial heart of gold and a whole lot of creativity! You are a most special child of God, and your example is humbling. Thinking about you always makes me smile. You, Bruce, Margaux, family and other friends, and the medical team are in my prayers. Carpe diem, little wren! And Bruce, thank you for taking time to email me and for sharing your lives with us. The web site is a wonderful gift of love. Chin up about the home improvements (planned and unplanned) y'all ... serenity will return!! Love and prayers to all of you. ~~ Carol

Susan Leonard

I have known the Dill family along time. Margaux and Seth are very close. Margaux was the fashion plate of kindergarten, and Deb also. She still is. The first time I met Margaux, she handed out little invitations to come see the Christmas lights on their house. It was FABULOUS!!! I mean there was an airplane on the roof, with Santa Claus! I love you Deb, and you have always been a good friend to me and my family. When we moved out of our house during the fire, Deb brought the MOST delicious apple pie, walked in our awful rent house and just came in like she was our family. We sat on the beds, because that was ALL the furniture we had, and just talked and laughed. It made my day. If I EVER needed a visitor to cheer me up...it would be Deb. I could go on and on about our FUN mom's day weekend at OSU, sleeping w/ Deb in her HUG HAT...She even looked chic in that! God Bless You...see you soon. I remember you in my daily prayers. God wants only GOOD things for us. CANCER SUCKS>

Josie

I remember the first time I saw you Debbie. It was at St. Francis radiation therapy. We were one day apart. Debbie I thought you were so cute in your cap with the scarf underneath. I copied you. I want to call you and have lunch, if you are able. Josie Driskill--friends of Bob Slyter

JOHN SAWYER

I have always prayed for God to bring me a best girlfriend. I have been blessed by some great girls in my life, but never really found "the one". I first met Deb the day before her first surgery. I had only been in Tulsa a short while, but had seen her at public gatherings and always admired her from afar. We both happened to be at a luncheon together one day and I heard that she was really concerned about being nauseaus from the chemo. I walked over to her and told her that my Aunt Carol had just battled breast cancer and never got nauseaus from her chemo. I then just blurted out "I want to be your friend!" and she said "I want to be your friend too!" This started a friendship that has been going on now for over a year and a half. I know it doesn't sound like a long time, but the love, laughter and memories we have shared together most people don't experience in a lifetime of friendship. Every morning I awake to the sweetest sound...Deb's voice on the phone saying "Good morning sunshine", or to a voicemail (if I have stayed up late the night before watching my TIVO) saying "Get your butt outta bed!" She is my morning cup of coffee, my mid morning snack, my lunch, my afternoon snack, my dinner, and my warm milk before bedtime...everyday. I love and admire her strength, the love she has for her family and friends, her loving mothering to Margaux and Megan. Her BEAUTIFUL granddaughter Hazel. Her devotion to her KNIGHT IN SHINING AMOR Bruce. A wonderful sister to Vick, Cheri, and David, her nephews Max, Brandon, and Connor, her tenderness to Pierre (her adorable and precocious cat), and the other joyous children in her life i.e. "Macey and Darcey". But most of all, I admire her faith. Her faith in God, in the goodness in everyone she meets, faith that Saks might possibly have her size in the cute new shoes they have on display, and the faith that she is in God's hands and will always do His will. She is the best friend anyone could ever have. Debbie's favorite word is GRACE. Isn't that so perfect for a woman who completely opitimizes all the qualities that word defines? I am the luckiest guy in the world to have someone like Deb in my life. God answered my prayers.

Audrey Parret

Where do I begin. The Dill's have been apart of my life for a long time, since before kindergarten. I know that growing up without them would have not been the same. I can recall many times when I would spend a whole weekend at the Dill's house. I even recall my mom saying you might as well just move in. HAHA. Well to sum it all up Bruce, Debbie, and Margaux have always been a great part of my life and we have all shared many laughs together, especially Debbie, how can you not laugh when you are around her. I am so glad that I still keep in touch with the Dill's. Love you all!

Janet Hicks

Dear Debbie, I am so saddened to hear about your health. I have said to so many people how shocked I was to hear about it because I cannot picture you sick in any way. I always remember you as the happiest, most possitive and outgoing person I've ever known. I don't think I ever saw you without a smile upon your face. Always radiant! I remember well our trip to market for Jr. Phil and the Jr. League days. No one I've ever known is as organized and as natural a leader as you are. You are my "Volunterring Idol"! You are in my thoughts and prayers. Keep smiling. Love, Janet

Amy Steinhoff

Oh my gosh.. I dont even know where to begin. There are so many hilarious stories I have of you I cant imagine narrowing it down to just one! Everytime I would come over I always expected a good laugh, that is whats so great about the two of you. I cant picture my middle school and high school days with out you. You always had open arms for all us girls when we would come and stay for pretty much the entire weekend. We would always wake up with a breakfast prepared. You both are amazing, and im so glad I became such good friends with Margaux! I love you!

Connie

As one who has lost her mind a LONG TIME AGO and her memory is soon to go no doubt;)~when I think back at the few (it would have helped if I lived in Tulsa much less wasn't traveling all over the world all the time!) but wonderful times we've been able to share together, I have to say the one thing that sticks out in my mind is your infectious laughter Deb. The smile is a fait du compleit...but the laughter...I remember the laughter. Now what we were laughing about..I haven't a clue (told you the memory is fading;)~ and most likely you were laughing at me! But whatever....as someone addicted to the sound of laughter, being around you was like being high on some drug~ There again, I've always felt that way about having you and Bruce in my life....And I have never figured out why I"m so lucky!

I guess the one other time I remember is when I had come home from Japan on a visit and my mother threw a party bringing all my dear friends together, and I remember you two at the front door being greeted by my mom...all smiles, hugs, and it was lovely evening...but specifically because you were there! Now I have more memories of Bruce (and pics) before you met him!...but I'll l save that for another day. Look forward to seeing you soon~ With love, C

Joanna Slyter

I have so many memories from the Dill house. I remember back in middle school when ever I would go to stay the night, it never ended up being just one night. I would always be calling my mom to bring me over clean clothes so I could stay again. I think once I ended up practically living with you all for like 4 or 5 days. I know most of us girls had our own toothbrush at your house, each one with our name on the package and a different color. You all made everyone feel welcome and part of the family.

Diane Steinhoff

Dear Debbie, The time you and the girls hid in the bathroom when you weren't in the mood for visitors was a hoot! Just know your wonderful smile and attitude has blessed us more than you'll ever know. You are in our thoughts and prayers. We love you! The Steinhoffs

Bruce Dill

We first met at utica Bank. I was walking in to make one of my small deposits. Debbie was walking to the copy machine. I said, "Boy your are cute! Have a great day!" She said, "Thanks". That is how our wonderful life together began.